Since you're hosted with me, let's take a look at the aMember ListMail plugin code...
$db->query($s = "INSERT INTO {$lm_db}users
(uid,list,fname,lname,email,cseq,cdel,cnf,dateadd,htmail)
VALUES
('$us',$list_id,'$member[name_f]', '$member[name_l]',
'$member[email]', 1, 0, 1, '$dat', 1
)
It looks like aMember has hard-coded a seq # of 1 and delay of 0 for new signups. What they could/should have done was read this from the ListMail lm_follow table...
Also, there does not appear to be ANY code for sending the list's "welcome email".
You may need to contact aMember support. Here is some code which they could use for their integration to do what you want:
<?php// don't forget to urlencode() the first and last name $url = "http://example.com/mail/signup.php?list=1&email=$payer_email&fname=$first_name&lname=$last_name&seq=1&del=0&overwritedupes=1"; $lmp = fopen($url,'r'); fclose($lmp);?>
or
$url = "http://www.domain.com/newsletter/signup.php?list=2&email=" .urlencode($_POST['email'])."&fname=" .urlencode($_POST['fname'])."&seq=1&del=0";
$ch = curl_init($url);
curl_exec($ch);
curl_close($ch);
Note: Taken from this post (http://listmailpro.com/forum/index.php?topic=1160.0)
Regards