Ok I have a list where I know everyone that would sign up to it, but sometimes they might not actually know how to confirm there signup. ( parents, grand-parents, etc.).
I could simply make it non confirmed opt-in, but I still want to keep people from putting in crap on the form should an outsider find it.
I know the MySql code to change unconfirmed users to confirmed on this list, but that won't send them my welcome message. What I need is a simple page or something that will change them to confirmed and send them the welcome message right away.