Indeed this is frustrating. We should start a petition or sue them or something! :lol:
1. Can we send our monthly email to just one part of the list at time? For example, is it possible to send to 1000 subscribers on Monday, 1000 on Tuesday, etc?
This is not built in but as long as you are sending with "Send Email" you could simply close the window part-way through the mailout. This should have the effect of stopping the mailing, although some servers continue to run the script in the background for a short while or even to completion. To check whether this happens login to ListMail and find the "Messages are being sent" header. Refresh the page numerous times to update the "# remaining". It should stop decreasing eventually... I envision a more frequent scheduled cron task that will allow for things like throttled/batch sending in the future. If you switch to the alternate mailing method "internal PHP mail" you can set delays between messages and every X minutes - that could help, but then again I'm sure the server tries the email for several days before giving up, so it might be best to get in queue before others on the server do.
2. Is it possible to break our one list into multiple lists and still provide them with the opportunity to unsubscribe from the list they're on? (I saw a past post about using an * instead of the list number to unsubsubsribe from all lists, and I'm hoping that this might work.)
Yes, a very simple custom MySQL query could copy X number of users users from one list to another. However, this would cause problems with the signup process because of not being able to find dupes and removals.
You can find the multi/global list remove options by editing your Remove Link message codes (Message Codes -> Global Codes -> "Edit" next to your Remove Link code being used).
3. If it's possible to use the * to unsubscribe, can I still have them subscribe to a single list? If so, what would the sign-up code look like?
No, this is what I was getting at in my #2 response. I can't recommend this solution. You might have better luck with throttling sending using internal PHP mail and the delay options it provides. Still, I'm concerned about that, too, because others on the server can and will continue sending to Yahoo, so the benefit may be minimized...
Any lawyers using ListMail?
Let's force them to have an easy, timely, straight-forward process to review and accept email from legitimate email marketers. If they spent even one tenth of the time they did fighting spam helping us we'd be flyin'...
You may want to consider a VPS or dedicated server if you aren't on one already. Typically even without review you should easily be able to get between 10k and 20k sent to Yahoo per day with your own dedicated IP. (This is a guess based on my experience - I unfortunately have not run an exhaustive analysis of the rate available)
Regards