Ha well hello, I didn't realize that, small world I guess. I've been an LMP user for YEARS... since 2002 I believe. Am fairly active in here, try to help when I can.
If mail with delays work cool, if not maybe a dedicated server is the way to go.
As for the code goes, I've just been learning PHP and just happened to notice that. I try to code for max performance when I can.
Anyway, I'm sure Dean will answer on how to make that remove from all lists.