Sorry I missed this conversation guys. I didn't have reply notifications turned on.
I'm seriously about to blow my brains out on this whole spambox/undelivered/delayed email thing. I cannot BELIEVE how much time and money I've wasted(?) on it. Since I started this thread, I've set up a new server with a new host (who promised one thing and is now delivering another). So I'm going absolutely nowhere fast. :roll:
Here's my 2 cents... Forget Domain Keys, you DO NOT need them.
Simply setup SPF records for your domain and be happy. It's VERY VERY VERY simple and it's what I use and get all ( well of course never all ) of my mail through to aol and yahoo...
mike2... you say that DomainKeys are not necessary. Well, I have SPF records. ReverseDNS. PTR. etc, etc. My IP is squeaky clean... never been on any spam lists anywhere. In fact, I've never sent a single mass mailing of any kind. Not once. Yet Yahoo and AIM never delivers my Listmail confirmation emails to the inbox. Well actually, when testing the other day, I *did* have 2 test messages make it to the yahoo inbox, but they were both delayed by nearly 72 hours (under Yahoo's fairly new delay procedure). These are confirmation emails I'm talking about, not newsletter mailings. As far as I can tell, this started in October or November, 2006.
So back to your quote above... if DomainKeys aren't the problem, what in the heck could be it?
My main competitor has it set up exactly right, and it works every time that I've tested it.
His setup is:
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NS1.HISDOMAIN.COM (separate IP)
NS2.HISDOMAIN.COM (separate IP)
NS3.HIS-HOST.COM (separate IP)
NS4.HIS-HOST.COM (separate IP)
mail.hisdomain.com (separate IP)
www.hisdomain.com (same as NS1 IP)
Send & Bounce email is the same: support@hisdomain.com
Zero errors on DNSReport.com
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This is the setup I'm trying to mimic. But I can't find a host that knows what the h3ll they're doing enough to make it happen. Actually, to be honest, I did find one that *could* set it up, but they won't because they're ultra-paranoid about security... so they only do things their way (meaning I cannot designate my own servername or dedicated mailserver IP).
And for anyone reading this... if you have a cPanel server, you can forget using DomainKeys... for at least 6 months...probably much longer. And it sounds like it will work on Plesk, but only with some significant caveats (as DW pointed out earlier). So as I mentioned earlier... I think the only way to do it is to setup a plain, stripped down Unix/Linux box and build the system from scratch. That way you can configure all the settings yourself and tell all the naysayers (and crappy, incompetent webhosts) what they can do with themselves.
Can you tell I'm furious and not thinking so clearly anymore? LOL...