Hi,
Interesting, BoomPop you're right, my Confirmation Emails to Yahoo are delayed for hours, I tested it myself, here are my headers:
X-Apparently-To: myemail@yahoo.com via 206.190.58.151; Tue, 26 Jun 2007 10:38:23 -0700
X-YahooFilteredBulk: xxx.xx.xx.xxx
X-Originating-IP: [xxx.xx.xx.xxx]
Return-Path: <nobody@server.mydomain.com>
Authentication-Results: mta131.mail.re4.yahoo.com from=mydomain.com; domainkeys=neutral (no sig)
Received: from xxx.xx.xx.xxx (EHLO server.mydomain.com) (xxx.xx.xx.xxx) by mta131.mail.re4.yahoo.com with SMTP; Tue, 26 Jun 2007 10:38:23 -0700
Received: from localhost (localhost [127.0.0.1]) (uid 99) by server.mydomain.com with local; Tue, 26 Jun 2007 11:41:32 -0400 id 000233AD.468133AC.00004E6A
So, it appears that I need the phpmailf variable DW recommends because my return-path is NOT equal to my bounce address, instead it is nobody@server.mydomain.com.
Look at the dates/times of send/deliver,
SENT:
Tue, 26 Jun 2007 10:38:23 -0700
DELIVER:
Tue, 26 Jun 2007 11:41:32 -0400
I thought it was even longer than that, but it's at least over 1 hour, this is too long and can really slow down people 'confirming' - but I thought I had watched the 'Bulk Folder' at Yahoo for at least 4-6 hours and not seen the email - so, the delay is disconcerting and a problem. Either way the email ended up in the 'Bulk Mail' folder.
I'll try adding the phpmailf and see if that changes anything.
Regardless, as you both suggested, I think my best bet is to contact Yahoo directly.
If not, HOW do you contact Yahoo, is there an appropriate 'Postmaster' email address/telephone number I can use? What do you recommend DW, BoomPop?